Dear Linda, please I have a question for other married women on your blog. My husband goes to night clubs every Friday and I want to find out from other married women if this is normal. There's never a Friday night that he doesn't go to one night club or the other to return on Saturday morning. I've only been married for eight months and he has never missed a Friday night with the boys. Should I take this as normal?few of the responses;;; all from Lindas's blog
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Anonymous said... - I aint married bh I no a lil abt ds,cz I go clubn wf ma married
uncle,n I no wt he does. Its nt ryt at all, 8mnths? Mehn bbz,trust mi
wen I say hez olrdi slpn ard. Derez no hw a nigga goes clubn err fridy
nyt n dsnt gt a couple of numbs..If its rili boys nyt out,it sud b 1ce
in a longtym,+ I bet d bois hez out wf are prty much single, get ur man
away frm dt hell hole,cz he wunt last.... TaMmmy
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janded said...
- well i do not mind my own husband having a boys night out once in
a while and i do too though we do not sleep outside our home. You have
to have a candid conversation with him and find out why he feels the
need to go out that often.
No one can define what is normal in a relationship. only you guys can.
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Anonymous said...
- Its not normal,when he said I do u became d "boys".Not that he
shuldnt hang out with dem but till dawn isn't for a married man,jst talk
to him n pray abt it cus it won't be easy 4 him 2 let go like that cus
it as obviously bcm a habit
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Anonymous said...
- Well I must say ur husband is still wallowing in his youthful
bhaviour buh ur marriage is still 2 young 4 him 2 lev u so uncaring
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Anonymous said...
- Well you women will marry a guy while he was still on the
streets.1 how long did you date him and while dating him did you let him
go out and leave you at home during that period?Well if that is the
case ,you should stop complaining.If he loves you as he is going out
make sure you get ready and go and visit relative and then try to call
him a lot of times during the course of the night.Then if you have
brothers or sisters in lagos sleep over there until morning and he will
really get mad.8 months and he is on the street already?The morning
shows the day.
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Alex said...
- Madam... Its not normal o, i guess your husband is busy "flexing" with fresh babes nd nice vajay-jay.
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Anonymous said...
- my dear its not normal oh! only 8months???
that is where the devil is, turn his head and he'll start sleeping with other women. you need to stop him and pray for him and pray with him!!!!
please its not normal if ur not going with him.
Vien Smart said...- DEAR LINDA, PLEASE TELL YOUR READER AND FAN WHO WROTE YOU THIS
LETTER THAT SHE CAUSED THIS , THAT I AM SURE SHE USED TO GO CLUBBING
WITH HIM WHILE THEY WERE COURTING, HOPING FOR MARRIAGE SHE WAS WILLING
TO CLUB AND NOW THAT SHE IS MARRIED SHE FEELS SHE CAN AUTOMATICALLY
PROGRAM HIM TO STOP? HELL NO! YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE A MAN, MOST WOMEN
THINK THEY CAN, THE SOONER THEY REALISE MEN ARE PROJECT ORIENTED. UNTIL
THAT MAN FINDS SOMEOTHER REPLACEMENT FOR THE FRIDAY NIGHT WAKA WAKA, IM
SORRY TO BE THE BAD NEWS BEARER, BUT SHE BETTER PREPARE FOR CONCUBINES
THAT HE MAY SOON BRING HOME. http://vien-smart.blogspot.com/
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Vien Smart said...
- http://vien-smart.blogspot.com/
SHE IS IN SUPER TROUBLE, ONLY GOD CAN HELP MEHN,
